Am I just a booty call or is he really just not ready for a serious relationship??

A female age 41-50, *illed with questions writes:

So there is this guy I met we went out and had some drinks and talked for hours we later hooked up that night.. He doesnt really call anymore just text about every night.. Sometimes to come over or just to see how I am doing.. We see each other atleast once a week. One night he invited me over and I met his room mate then he also invited his best friend over and we all hung out all night watching movies and talking. He took me to a bar where I met some more of his friends... Which I thought was a good sign.. I go out and see his best friend who is a bartender and he is always saying hello and asking if I talked to this guy.. I finally asked my crush if he was wanting more or just friends.. He told me that he was not looking for anything serious right now.. Do I take this as a booty call or does he really like me but just not ready for a relationship yet???

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