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41-50,
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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are generally happy. The problem is that he has never told me he loves me, he says that he would probably cheat on me if the right opportunatity come along and he wants to marry someone who is from the same country as him. I told him that we are wasting our time being together and suggested seeing other people but he got really upset, when I do talk to other men, he gets really jealous. The only thing he has admitted is that he never thought he would be able to date a girl like me because he thought I was way out of his league. What does he want from me? is he using me until something better comes along?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 February 2009):
He's made it clear that you have no future together... but at the same time he does like you so likes having you as his girlfriend.
He's letting you make the decision here. You can stick with him till he leaves you for someone else, but have that time together till he does. OR you can cut your losses now, not be together when you know you could be but not have to deal with the pain of being cheated on / dumped when someone of marriage material comes along.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 he is taking the milk cause its free but he is also trying to push you away. he knows you 2 are not right for each other but probably doesn't want to just leave you cause he thinks you are a great girl so he is telling you all this stuff to make it easy for YOU to leave HIM.
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reader, Auntie Stoned  +, writes (18 February 2009):
He wants to have a fling with you but when it comes to life partner he will choose a woman from his ethnic and country background. He made that very clear and you should know that unless you are in denial and living in la la land.
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