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writes:My boyfriend has a very close female friend and perhaps I'm just reading into it too much but it seems to me that she's the girlfriend he's never had. When she walks into the room, he lights up and shouts out her nickname. When he talks to her, he's always touching her somewhere. He hangs out with her frequently but only when I'm not around. She's had issues with me telling him she feels that I don't like her. I guess my jealousy shows? Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with this situation or is it me just being jealous? Please help!
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reader, gumbbo  +, writes (18 February 2009):
Yep totally normal and i wouldn't like it one bit if i were you. Sorry but this is such an old story. Guy in love with best friend (who is female) but never has the guts to admit it for fear of what she will think. She probably has no interest in him other than friendship else they would be together. Ok answer these honestly and if you answer yes to them both, it means she is a real problem and i would ditch the guy.1) She is attractive yes/no?2) She is nice yes/no?
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reader, Onesoul +, writes (18 February 2009):
Too tell you the true, I was once have so many close female friends, that even my frist love thought that im cheating on her, or she not my type. That way of thinking well make the relationship turn upside down, because your not asking him questions about that...just ask? there nothing wrong of asking. insted of saying that is there something going on. Just ask him. Its better if you ask frist..so you wont waste your time dealing with the problem later on. im I right? well..your lucky that you got some one to tell you..ask for me..i lost her..n now im building my love for my future wife..I am happy with what choice i make. even you have a choice to make..so just know that your not alone, and think triwce about what your going too say okay..oh yea..you will know when there lying or not too..if you really know his heart and the way he acts, then it won't be hard to know when he's lying or not. but just remember that you can ask question..dont get mad..just take him aside n ask him..if things get hard.walk away n tell him you need time to think okay...that work every time...but dont think too long hahaha..anyways..remember that you have to be strong to k..anyways. smile.
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