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*michael
writes:this past summer i had a girl out at my house we were going to sit in my hot tub outside then go swimming in the pond after that. well the thing is she didn't really have a swim suit and so she wore her t-shirt and her swim suit bottom. and she goes on saying that she doesn't think it is fair that guys get to wear shorts that aren't as revealing and goes on saying that guys should wear revealing pants to make it fare as to what women wear. what i am wanting to know is did she want me to wear my underwear instead of my trunks so she could see my junk? or was that just something she was saying out loud just because?
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reader, tmichael +, writes (18 February 2009):
tmichael is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answers. the reason that i asked is because she has had sex many times with other guys. she has told me personally. and she is really flirty. i didn't act upon anything. but i look back and thought, did she want to have sex with me or at least see my junk. i can't help not thinking about sex. i am a guy. we think about it a lot. I don't mean to make excuses. but it is true. but again thank you for your help.
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reader, gumbbo  +, writes (18 February 2009):
No, if she wanted to see it she would have not said anything and expected you to read her mind, then when you didn't she would accuse you of not liking her and expect you to realise why!
Welcome to the mysterious world of women, you're going to like it here...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): Gee I don't know, why didn't you just call her on it and take your shorts off....she made a stupid comment because she wasn't really thinking and she was insecure about what she had to wear and what she was showing......seems like she was insecure to me and was uncomfortable and was looking for you to say something to make her more comfortable and she went about it in a stupid way.
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reader, Tomas +, writes (18 February 2009):
Sounds flirty to me, but a specific request? Borderline.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): No, she did not want to see your junk. Men tend to think women's comments are more sexual than they are. Remember that.
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