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*overman86
writes:Ok, My girlfriend and I were having sex and then all of a sudden things i was doing stopped pleasuring her. even things that used to work before that point. what the hell happened? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): It's not about positions it's about making her feel special. Try slowing down kissing her don't f*** like a jackrabbit. Foreplay goes a long way tease her alot and just give her a little that will drive a girl crazy. Be gentle soothing ask her what she likes experiment with all sorts of things. Go to the book store right now and look in the section for sex and relationships and get yourself a book on love making. you need to think that you are making love to a gentle woman not f***ing the hell out of her. Based on your age I say your just banging away and not trying to take care of her needs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): she is probably bored or doesn't want to be with you anymore. the last two boyfriends I had stopped pleasuring me after I lost interest in them. I only lost interest in the first one cause he beat me the other one I lost interest because he turned out to be a loser and would not work but 20hrs a week when I was working 60 and going to school. Shortly after I lost interest I left them so you should probably see if she still loves you or not, and if she is still interested. Or she could have been faking it the whole time before. Possibly she has no libido, some women lose there sex drive for no apparent reason she could be depressed or stressed out or maybe she is on a medication that is effecting her ablity to receive pleasure. Talk to her find out the source of her problems it may not be you it might just be her, or her hormones.
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reader, loverman86 +, writes (18 February 2009):
loverman86 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok she was faking it and i have forgiven her for it :) but....i need advice on how else i could please her...i have had sex with her in different ways, doggy and missionary, any other positions? i have fingered her and gone down on her but none of these push her buttons...what else can i do?
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (18 February 2009):
this may sound harsh...but maybe she was faking it before and has got bored of not being pleasured? don't worry if this is the case, it's not your fault. she should of told you what she likes and show you where she likes to be touched,etc. faking is never a good idea.
if she was not faking, maybe she just needs something new and spicey. try different posistions, role play, blind folds, food, sex outside...anything new and exciting that would turn you both on.
maybe when she comes in one day just kiss her then and there and have sex with her then and there (if she wants to) nothing more erotic then a man grabbing you and wanting you then and there.
spice things up a little. it could be she is just getting bored of the same old.
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