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writes: I recently re-connected with my first husband after 20 or so years. We live 700 miles apart, but we are talking about my moving with him and spending the rest of our lives together. My question is, should I trust him and all the things he is telling me such as he never stopped loving me and that he is grateful to have a second chance with me. He has not been in a relationship for years. I have however recently found out that he is chatting with other women and telling them that he finds that "they are to be his type" and he finds them very attractive! I don't know what to make of this and wonder if I should speak to him about this, or wait until we meet again face to face to see if it will work out between us?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (18 February 2009):
You're welcome :)
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reader, yours4ever +, writes (18 February 2009):
yours4ever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the good feeback Peter Pan!
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (18 February 2009):
Wait -- I don't understand... he's cheating now? If that's the case, then keep your distance. Further, I'd remind you to pull out those old legal documents and read why you divorced him in the first place. If it reads anything like your question, then DEFINITELY don't move. He's habitual and if after 20 years he hasn't settled any, then he's never going to.
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