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writes:i am 30 in age and have a son of 7 years im a divorcee few months back came to my parents a friend of mine helped me in my establishment .she and her hubby made my standing .but somehow i started loving him she doesnt know but he is honest to her and never accepts my love 4 him .i find my support in him and my strength in him .now hes not ready to help me directly and tells me 2 run things with his wife.but I" m sinking without him what should i do? am i wrong i love him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): I don`t know how women like you live with yourselves, how you can actually feel the thrill of trying to steal another woman`s man. Your ex-husband is a lucky man, I feel sorry for your son, you will have many men come through your doors, you sound so desperate, who would try and fall for a friend's husband, and someone who is being sweet in helping you... you really need some morals...... KARMA IS SOMETHING ELSE YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT. I'll Pray for YOU!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): What's the matter with you? It's so Wrong to want your 'friends' husband! They made marriage promises to each other and he has TOLD you to stay away from him. He loves and wants to be with her only.
I understand you are hurt from a divorce, but you are reaching out for help in the wrong way. You are stronger than you know, and you need to distance yourself from them. Do this for the love of your son. You don't want him to be ashamed of you, do you? Isn't there another man in Your family to help you? Father, brother, cousin? You are still young, and can dream for a new man to come into your life. A single man that only wants you.
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reader, bee n me  +, writes (18 February 2009):
no...not cool!you sound like ur starting out fresh ,don`t start out foolishly,does`nt sound like he feels the same way,it`s true what i`m reading from the others, find someone you can call your own,i believe u deserve that much,why add more negativity when you can have a great future with someone who will truly be there for you and only you..ya feel me dear!lol...
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reader, Mels  +, writes (18 February 2009):
You are wrong to love him! Have you thought about his wife and your friend who has been helping you? Does she deserve this? He is doing the decent thing, just leave him alone and find a man who's not attached.
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reader, bittersweetchicka +, writes (18 February 2009):
Ok, This is my advice take it or leave it ( I am no saint)
Sometimes when people help us we develop a attraction to them, and start to feel like they are for the reason where you are today thing.. In fact what brought u to where u are now is U, so why not stand tall and believe in yourself too know that?!
It sounds like it's not a mutal feeling, your having with him.. My advice is too find yourself - really deep inside, if you would you would see you have work through some hard times "yes" with help but it was U who did the walking through the problems to get you where u are & then u would say too yourself I want to be with someone who wants 2 be with me! So my advice is too walk away from him, be friends with his wife and go out there and find that man who will respect, love, honor u...
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