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writes:I've had sex in a car before the break out bleeds, and he got his penis in me pretty easily. Then he tried a bed today and he had a lot of trouble getting his penis in me today. I was wondering if vaginas could get tighter, because I have a really tight one. we also tried doggy style and we can't get it in that way either. So could vagina's get tighter and a little advice on the doggy style position. Please Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): Have him do oral on you first. You will probably have an orgasm that way if he does it even close to correctly. That should get you very wet. If he inserts one finger into your vagina during oral then you will be tight when he inserts his penis because you will tighten up to accommodate one finger. You will be looser if he uses one finger and then goes on to 2 fingers before you begin intercourse. However, it feels good for both partners with the tightness from one finger foreplay. Oral should get you well lubricated before insertion. If not, then use K-Y or Astroglide lube. The wetter you are the looser it feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): No, they cannot. A vagina is a "potential" space, which means it expands ands shrinks as necessary. If you are turned on, it opens up and you get wet. If you're not, it's going to feel more "tight". If you have sex like that, with no foreplay and without being turned on, it will be difficult, maybe painful, and could even be uncomfortable for him. If this is your first few times having sex, there might still be some of your hymen intact, which will make it a little uncomfortable. But you shouldn't get caught up in this idea that tight vaginas are good, that you can get really loose or really tight girls. There are differences, sure, but if you can't get his penis is, it probably means you are not turned on, not that you have a freakishly tight vagina.
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reader, blahhh +, writes (18 February 2009):
try more foreplay before he tries to go in you. the wetter you are the easier it will be. also, the vagina will expand to accomodate his penis if you do that. maybe have him go down on you first. whats always worked for girls ive been with that were really tight is licking their clit and fingering at the same time. you might even come once or twice before you even have sex :D
for doggy style just try starting out in another position,once it feels comfortable switch it up. doggy is a lot of girls fav coz it lets him hit the g-spot. tell him to give you a "reach around" n play with your clit while hes doing it n youll love it.
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reader, a_seidner06 +, writes (18 February 2009):
 I dont really know how it worked before and now you guys couldn't even get it in, but my suggestion would be lube, lube and more lube! :)
And when your doin it Doggy style, make sure your back is curved and your butt is in the air, that way it open your vagina a little more...and you might just get off doin in public places.
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