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female
age
41-50,
*ynyek
writes:Dear Cupid,Hello!Thank you for this kind of opportunity, beacause I am confused I want somebody to give me an advise.I've been married for more than 5 years, we have two lovely daughters.But, I feel not in love with my husband, just because I admire somebody else.I have a highschool crush, then until now we communicate through internet, he told me about he feel before that he likes me. He told me everything, He is also my long-time crush. We have no chance before because he work in saudi,but we communicate eventhough I have my boyfriend and now my husband. He told me he will be coming home this may and he ask for a dinner date.I'm so excited because since this is my dream. I don't know how to feel with my husband, I'm confused sometimes I refused to have sex with my husband. I don't feel the magnic anymore.I want to know if I fall in love with this guy? If it's okay I will meet him on this may? It is right to talk to my husband how I feel? Please help me dear cupid!More Power to you!lyn
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reader, franklydammy  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 If you will adhere to what I will tell you, it will do you more good. What you feel for the guy is not LOVE but LUST! Before you got married to you husband, you must have felt the same for him (i think should be LOVE). When couples have kids involve in their relationship, they are no longer husband and wife only but they've become LIFE PARTNER.
What you can do to change the way you felt for this new guy is to stop communicating with him, REJECT HIS DINNER DATE, You are about destroying not only your life if things continue like this but you are about destroying the life of YOUR HUSBAND, YOURSELF AND YOUR TWO KIDS.
I wish you will find my advice useful, just sit down and think, WHAT DOES THIS GUY POSSESS AND MY HUSBAND DOESN'T POSSESS. Let me know your feedback probably privately.
Yours
Clem
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