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writes:Hi All, I posted yesterday about my husband text flirting with a colleague (one of her texts verified that it had gone no further) and thanks for all the advice. Although all this happened over 6 months ago, I am getting worse rather than better in imagining what they said to each other. My husband (obviously!) wants to forget it all and says it was just a silly game as we were going through a really bad patch (sorry for repeating if you read yeaterday's). We are now really back on track in every sense but I can't get her out of my head. I caught a glimpse of her at a distance a while ago when they both attended the same meeting and I went to spy (how sad, as I said yesterday) but I have been hankering to see her features close up. Well, against some of yesterday's advice, I have just come back from driving to her place of work (a 45min journey each way) and waiting on the street until she pulled up in her car. I then followed her up the pathway and as she opened the front door she turned around sensing I was behind her. I made an excuse to ask what time they opened so that I could hear her speak and have time to look at her. As my husband says, she is no stunner but nearly 20 years younger than me. He said she wears no make up because he loves well groomed women, well surprise, surprise, her foundation was very obvious. He also said she was a bit short and dumpy as he likes tall, slim women (which I am)and again surprise, she is small but by no means overweight (one of his texts said he felt randy at the thought of her in lacey undies but told me it was a joke because she had told him she couldn't get any nice ones to fit). I know he told me what he wanted me to hear and spare my feelings over an already terrible trauma and I was advised by replies yesterday not to go and look at her. My heart is pounding at the thought we exchanged words, I was so dying to reveal myself and question her. Please help, I am driving myself mad and sitting here crying. I can't tell my husband where I've been. Thanks again for reading x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks ladies x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): i agree with gina,let it go,now it`s time to move on to the next step in your relationship,there`s no need to mention where you`ve been,the important thing is that you are trying to patch things up,i believe your a better person than that,be all the woman you can be to him now,and hopefully he can give you what you need in return,best of luck...from, bee n mee
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