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age
30-35,
*riflexabel
writes:Well here is my situation: Me and my girlfriend have known each other for over four years we have been practically been best friends.. and just recently begun going out for about 3 months now..i am 19 she is 18..Here is my question: She wants to not have sex with her future husband until they are married. i want to marry this girl i have loved her since i first laid eyes on her, we have already had sex twice, and now i am worried that i wont be able to keep her forever, it is stressing me out unbelievably, what should i do? is this relationship bound to not last for the long run? our relationship is totally good still. I do not know how to fix it so i can maybe possibly keep her forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): I think what she is trying to tell you is --she wants to be sexually pure with You--.Now.
To put your mind at ease, I think you should ask this question yourself. Just say, I have a question for you that's been on my mind....
**So if you don't make 'the sexual moves' on her, she will think your husband material:)
Ask her what her boundaries are for physical touch before marriage.
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reader, franklydammy  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 Just stop worrying, learn to understand her, know what she wants, but u said she doesn't want to have sex and you've already have sex twice (Is it with her?) If no, dont rush into telling her as this may cause unwarranted problem.
THE MAIN ISSUE is that you should stop worrying yourself,
Ask yourself the following question,
Did I really love her?
Did She really love me?
Did She see the future with me?
and finally Did absolute trust exist between us?
IF YOU CAN BOLDLY SAY YES to all this question, then you have nothing to worry about. SHE'S ALL YOURS!
Let me know if this advice is of any help to you.
Yours
Clem (franklydammy)
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