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*ilveknifex
writes:Basically ive been talking to this girl for awhile almost 5 months, we went out for 2 but had to break up because she wasnt over her ex, and didnt want anything bad to happen between us, so about 2 weeks ago the ex called her and finally told her he was odne with her, even though the ex hadnt been talking to her for 7 months, so reality finally hit her, and she cried, she has already assured me she likes me, i mean alot to her, and she appreciates me so much, but its like im the right guy, but right now shes not ready for a realtionship, so were still cose thought we talk everyday, say goodnight good morning and stuff, but for some reason shes been texting all these guys, back that all of a sudden each one likes her after a week, one guy says he wud do anything for her and he met her ******* tuesday, like what the ****, and she just takes it in like its nothing, i know she doesnt liek any of these guys back, but i think maybe she enjoys allthe likeness because its osmething her ex couldnt give her, but in the end she always still calsl me and she tells me everything about all these guys so she doesnt hide anything from me, she knows i love her, its just soo weird its likeWHY DO U DO THIS? u know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): you're a friend, and she's playing it safe by keeping you around. at this point it's about your respect.i would say that you need to tell her how you feel. tell her that you do have feelings for her but if you're just going to be the "friend" while she talks to you about all these guys then she needs to get a girl to talk to. it's not right of her to play with your feelings like that and it seems like that's what she's doing. she's comfortable with the way things are but she shouldn't be treating your relationship like that. if she was really serious about you you'd be together- i'm sorry to say. but she needs to know that from your point of view you're hurt and not going to disrespect yourself by sticking around and taking it like it's nothing.
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