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writes: My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. We want to begin to get intimate. When we are ready to have sex for the first time (I'm a virgin and he's not)should I help him put his penis in me or does the man generally do that. Any tips from your experience? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): There are no set rules really. I would say let him attempt to put it in first. You say he's not a virgin, so he should be able to. If for some reason he has trouble entering you, then it's fine to grab ahold and guide him in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): You could always try to be that one-in-a-million kind of girl that gets on top for your first time. You grab it, you aim it and then sink down on it - gently, of course, and you can go at your own pace.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 DEFINITELY help guide him in. Poor men, they fumble around and have no idea what they're doing. You'll have a much better idea of where he should be aiming than he will.
He may be able to just go ahead and slip it in himself... but you being a virgin, I think that it'll be better if you have more of a hand in it (pun definitely intended). Being a little in control will help you go at your own pace and figure out how penetration will be most comfortable for you.
Good luck, take your time and be safe!
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (18 February 2009):
they usually slip them in on their own. but sometimes if he has a little trouble you can guide him in. also he will probably enjoy you touching him as he enters you. but as it's your first time i'm sure he will take charge. so don't worry about it.
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