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writes:Well how shall I start. Im a 22 year old mother to be. I've graduated from high school and put a pause on college but after my baby's born I intend on going back. I live at home with my parents and I share a room with my sisters. Im a very private person and Im use to working in a quiet environment. The real problem is, is that I don't think theres a good paying job out there for me. I would rather stay home with my son and go to college. On the other hand I can't continue to stay with my parents and raise my child. I want him to learn responsibility and good manners and well this atmosphere isn't the right place for him. Before I got pregnant I was working and had my own car and apartment. I was always use to shopping, school, and going out. I didn't know once I got pregnant, I would feel the symptoms and couldn't work. I end up leaving my job and moving back home. I just want a job where I could stay home with my son and still make good money and buy nice things. Can anyone help me. Im not anti social but I would much rather work where I don't have to put up with different characters.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 August 2009):
 Your baby will need lots of attention and care. I hate to sound pessimistic, but you will need to assess how much attention the baby will need, and how much attention you can provide when you're working, before thinking of moving out.
Being a single mother is a hard thing. You will have to find a job, yes, but you also will need the support your family could give you.
I am sorry I can't recommend a particular job to you, as I don't live in your country, but I do commend you on your positive attitude and your desire to become independent again. Three million cheers to that.
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