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*ainbow1
writes:Ok, here it is, I will just shoot from the hip here and maybe get a bit more insight into my wondering mind.I met a guy about 6 weeks ago. had coffee and talked. nice man and he asked to meet again. during the time before we met there was texts etc. anyway we then met and went for a drink then to the movies then a drink after. Still getting on fab. He walked me to my car and then he asked would i see him again. We kissed but i pulled away after a while cos people kept beeping their horns. he said was i worried someone might see. think he thought i was married or somthing..Anyway more texts came through and the next time we talked about meeting i said he was welcome to mine (first time).He came round and we talked and laughed, ate and laughed and after 5 hours he finally put his arm round me (i am writing this and thnking i sound like a teenager) we kissed and then he stopped! he said what did i want from him. i was shocked as not been asked to have a talk about things before. i said i wanna go with the flow , not rushing into anything. He said he liked being single and dont wanna rush into anything either so for now not looking for a relationahip, saying he could be busy for a few weeks before he cld see me etc. his work takes him a farWe slept together and after that he said he didnt know why he had had that talk.Then i was shocked as not long after he left the following day he text. and again 2 days later finding out how my night went.He then asked when was i oing away cos he wanted to see me before i go.He said he would come round the following wed or thurs. he text wed to say he wasnt feeling great so wouldnt probably be over.Is he playing me?Thanks guys for hwoever read this
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reader, rainbow1 +, writes (27 August 2009):
rainbow1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot being seduced by honesty. And i not chased either, he always asks about meeting again. Inever asked where we r heading nor what he wanted out of it.I have my busy life (apart from today i am resting before a busy next ten days) I think like all of us that start to get involved we just expect honesty.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind  +, writes (27 August 2009):
The irony of this posting is, you made is apparent that his comment of "what do you want out of this" was kind of off putting, but you are the one with butterflies and nervousness.. irony.Well, clearly you're developing feelings for this guy, but it does honestly seem a little like charm that your being seduced by honestly. I would be a little reluctant. Distance yourself a little and see if he chases. If he does, its real. If he backs off.. he was playing you. just a thought-iydm
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reader, rainbow1 +, writes (27 August 2009):
rainbow1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno his name dont start with D lol
his line of work takes him away and he has tried to see me a few times and i not been able, so he has made the effort
as for me getting on with my life, i certainly do. i am not at his beck and call either
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reader, rainbow1 +, writes (27 August 2009):
rainbow1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for that. Yeah I was thinking maybe he is an ok persona nd definitely being careful about getting involved
I am going away for a few weeks so will just have to wait and see if he contacts me again
Thanks again
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