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writes:I was dating my boyfriend for a year before he proposed we moved in together and things were good. We fought like any other couple made up like any other couple. Then we started fighting more he seemed different. One night(at this point it was 3 months before our wedding) he went out without me and disappeared until 1 am he made up some stupid story and I believed him. But after that it just went downhill he didnt want to be near me after that night he broke up with me about 2 weeks later and I was devastated. I left for a few months and didnt know what to do with myself it was like this huge nightmare that was never ending. He dated other people while we werent together. I came back to get the rest of my things about 6 months later and all of a sudden he changes his tune and says that he can't live without me and telling me how sorry he is, it was months of talking before I finally decided that I could let him in and give it another try. Within those months I found out that that night he dissappeared he had cheated on me with this person that I knew and disliked(in part because I guess I suspected she liked him)It took even longer for me to even be able to wrap my head around that but I love him so much and he says he loves me the same way so I decided to take him back.Now weve been back together for over a year and things are good and then they're rocky they're good and then they;re rocky and its mostly because of me. I want toget over what he did but I really don;t know how. I pick fights over stupid things I don;t really trust him the way I should and I just don't know how to rid myself of this feeling everytime it pops into my head. I guess I thought maybe writing about it and hearing what people have to say about it could help. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): Your bf lied cheated and broke up with you over some gurl you went back to him what does that show that the next time he does it and if you find out it will be ok cause youll just go back again whenever he feels the need for you clearly he doesnt care that much for you when he dissapeard with the gurl you hate once a cheater always a cheater and you will never trust him you will probley have that in your mind for like ever guys are dogs whenever they have a chance to sleep around they will i have 6 brothers so i somewhat kno but maybe im wrong maybe he does really love you and learned his lesson and wont do it again
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