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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Are there any signs that suggest whether a guy wants you for sex or something more? It's a month before I can see him to talk about it face to face (I'd rather not ask by email or on the phone) but I need an idea of where we could be heading before then, for the sake of my sanity! Reply to this Question
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reader, Perspicacious  +, writes (27 August 2009):
Sex is just one part of a healthy, loving relationship and other parts should include companionship, romance, support and so on.If someone is just interested in sex then those other aspects of the relationship are going to be lacking completely, or exist only at a much reduced level.Some people will appear to offer those other relationship aspects in order to manipulate their target into having sex with them. In those circumstances the other affections are often quickly withdrawn following sex, or realising that sex isn't going to happen.While you don't discuss your circumstances, if you are left wondering if he is just interested in you for sex then it would suggest that other areas of your relationship are leaving you less than satisfied. In which case perhaps you need to ask yourself why you are feeling that way, and what it is that he does / doesn't do that leaves you questioning his motives?
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