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Does it make me a bad person if I have feelings for my ex's brother?

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Question - (27 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok so i am really not looking for any criticism so please dont do that. i have a friend i have had for about 5 years now and 2 years ago he hooked me up with his older brother. we didnt last havent been together for about 7 months now. he became a bad herion addict and i just couldnt take it anymore. i just recently put him in rehab today for his family. his family really likes me and im pretty close to all of them and talk on pretty much a daily basis. so me and my old friend which is my ex's brother just hung out yesterday for the first time in about 3 months..we had a great time like we always have before we used to be the best of friends..we also had sexual relations that night and it also happened when we saw eachother 3 months before. now i just need to know if this makes me some terrible person i just cant help but fall for him he has been the best of friends for years and he seems so perfect he goes to school has a great job does absolutely no drugs pretty much the complete opposite of his brother(my ex) i just dont know what to do!?!? :[

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

You're not bad person. You can't be held responsible for the way you feel because feelings are feelings and the only thing we can do is cope with them. Wow I feel wrong answering your question in one sentence considering you question was a whole paragraph but I don't see anything else to add... you're not a bad person. Yeah well goood luck.

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