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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi all, id like to ask for advice on an internet date, blind date if you like.weve been talking for a month and a half, internet and phone calls.now were going to be meeting next week.il give you some background on the situation.We have both fell head over heels for eachother. we can talk on the phone all day and night. its like iv found my soul mate, and the feeling is completely mutual. hes always telling me how pretty and perfect i am, and im loving it. we can talk about litrally everything and all those walls and barriers iv kept up from bad luck in love from the past, had been broken down so easily.which was so unexpected , because i had started to become a hardfaced person when it comes to things like this. I really , honestly think, iv found, 'the one'.But my problem is........ im unbelivably nervous!!!!dont get me wrong, it just feels right that we meet and i know everything will be fine, and that we will be a couple, but that first initial meeting, is dawning fast, and my tummys doubling up with butterflys, i feel out of control. Thats how i know i like him. but its such a strange feeling that iv never felt before. its not love, i know that, im not saying that, but im crazy about the guy, and so nervous at seeing him for the first time. iv thought about dutch courage, but i know deep down thats not such a good idea. what do u all think ? how can i calm myself down to the point where id feel not so nervous. some stories of your own experiences might help too??? thanks in advance guys. xxx
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reader, natmarie +, writes (27 August 2009):
 Hi. Have you exchanged phtos? try to do that before meeting up. This will help , as you know what you are getting then!! alos, try not to build up too many unrealistic expecatations, as you will come down with a bump if the chemistry is not there in 'real life'. Also, I always say - it is better too meet soonner rather than later when net dating. If this does not work out, and you speak to someone else, get meeting within a few phone calls, and emails. This stops the ' big build up'., and enables you to quell your curiousity quickly before you start planning the wedding!! dress nicely, but comfortably, try to get there a bit afterwards so you can see him first, and compose yourself, have a small drink if you drink, to clam your nerves. Do not expect too much. let us know how it goes!! NatMarie xx
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