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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 6 months now and I love her to death, but we are exact opposites. I'm almost 6' tall and shes about 5' 2" maybe, I'm around 250 LBS and shes less than 100 LBS. I'm 16, shes 14. I listen to country, rock and roll, 19802 rock, she listens to rap, pop, and stuff like the jonas brothers. She high society and I'm not. I love her more than anything but, I'm not gonna lie I've lost that spark. When I used to come home from her house I would feel great, like nothing could ever hurt me but lately it's like no big deal. She hasn't been treating me the sam lately she won't tell me she loves me, and she never want to talk on the phone. I've been wanting to talk to her about this for some time now but I just can't get around to it. I want to but I can't. Theres so much i want to say to her and I've rehursed it several times. I want to tell her that I love her so much and can't live without her. I want to marry her when that time comes, and I wanna have kids with her and die with her, of course I've never told her this but I want to. How can I tell her how I feel? Can I get that spark back?
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reader, linz09  +, writes (27 August 2009):
 Hi thereOpposites attract you know..your at the 6 months period when the newness and first intial spark of a relationship fades...I think the best thing to do would be to write her a letter to tell her how your feeling...be honest in this letter and tell her everything that is troubling you and whats on your mind.You see with a letter she can sit down and read and re-read the letter a few times and that will give her some time to take in how you feel. When all the things you've been worrying about are out in the open...you will feel better and you will find it easier to talk to one another. Communication is the key.Hope everything goes ok. (:
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reader, allovertheboardgirl +, writes (27 August 2009):
Yea I would maybe ask how she's doing and if she's not opening up to you I would ask her if she wants some space and if she says yes then I would give it to her (go on a break, break up, whatever). And if you do this "break" right (don't call, don't tell her you love her, etc just act like you're moving on with your life) it is more than likely that she will come back around eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): Half the differences you mention can be chalked up to the fact that you are a typical male and a typical female. You can't make her love you if she has lost interest.
Try being a little more distant than usual for a week or so and see how she reacts. If it makes her want you more, you may have a chance to re-interest her in the relationship. If she doesn't care or is relieved by the fact she sees you less, things are probably over, whether you like it or not. Good luck.
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