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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, it's a long story but i need help with this. I thought everything was fine in our relationship, it was pretty much out of this world to me and i thought he felt the same. He told me everyday how much he loved me and that he didnt want to lose me for a long long time. Then all of a sudden, on the last 2 days of the school term he suddenly hardly spoke to me and just gave me the cold shoulder. I confronted him about it and he just kept saying it was fine, everything was fine. Then on the final day of the school term, breaking up for summer, he refused to talk to me which resulted in me running to my last lesson in tears. After that lesson he told me he needed to talk but i just jumped in and said 'everything will be fine in the summer, its just because of school'. His reply was okay. Then two days after he sent me a text saying 'This isnt working, im sorry.' I hope i've emphasized how out of the blue this break up really was. This is not some little 'school love', i am fully fledged in love with this guy. I wrote him a letter and cycled 15 miles to post it through his door; still no reply. He came to a party of mine and i told him i was still in love with him, he told me he still liked me and that i was beautiful, amazing etc but i deserve better. I dont want better. I just want him. How can i get that through to him? I think that is just what he needs to know, then maybe, just maybe. Now i hear he has found someone new. I need help with this as i have relapsed into a depression i had two years ago. What should i do? Should I keep trying to get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): Too be honest if he has find someone new maybe you should do the same. Whats stopping him doing it again to you if you two get back together trust me i know how you feel. It will hurt but this will make you stronger for later life. :) cheer up theres plenty of fish in the pond just grab the right bait and you will do fine
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