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male
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41-50,
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writes:Im in this bad situation and i feel like crap. I have been with this woman for 3 years and now it ended. I cant seem to get over her. She decided to cut me off and out of her life. She says she is doing much better and feels "wonderful" and "great", but i feel horrible and i miss her. She doesnt want to talk to me or email me saying im a negative part of her life and that i make her feel bad. How can she get over me so fast? Its only been 2 weeks since we broke up. Now she is dating other people and doing all these things when not even a day goes by without me thinking about her. I just dont understand how a person can get over someone so quick. I dont understand why it makes me feel like crap because she loved me more than i loved her it was clear in our relationship. I tried emailing her 3 times in the past 3 weeks and it seems like she has my email in the junk she never reads them. Never replies. Is she really that over me? Am i that bad of a person that im some negative energy now? What should i do when i want her back. Space? I gave her space months years what? It hurst every single day. I sleep all day just to forget about her my life is hell. I just miss her and i dont mind being friends but even that option she cut out. Its killing me. Im so hurt. Im so hurt. Im so hurt. And lonely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Been here...it sucks a lot...but just back off..dig in ur toes
And move on the best you can...today it seems impossible..in 3 months
It still may feel the same...but keep moving and it will eventually
Just fade away....as much as you don't want it too..it is what is
No changing it..there will be plenty more to come.
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (28 August 2009):
 i think you should move on. It happen to my ex-fiance. i cut him off due to some reasons.
He tried to texts me, calls me..they didnt change my mind. So , just move on your life
wish u all the best.
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reader, funnyintit  +, writes (28 August 2009):
 she may not be over you, i seem to think that women appear to move on quicker, when really they don't... they quickly do all the things a single person would do, with no love in their life...the best thing is to ignore her, you should have stopped after the second e-mail if you didn't get anything back...it kind of seems she's trying to get over you, maybe for good reason, i don't know...you just need to chill, try getting on with your life, as hard as it seems..if she wants you she will contact you when she is ready, just have some patients...
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