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writes:I don't consider my self to be insecure or have low self esteem but I do have a jealousy problem. In honesty I don't know where it comes from. I'm working on figuring it out..I don't know if I'm just afraid to admit to my self. But I don't feel insecure. I hate females around my boyfriend. I hate the fact that some of his best friends are girls. Two of I just totally hate. One was his first love and one is just always around and I hate it. I know it shouldn't matter because that's his past. But it still bugs me. Sometimes my feelings make me "disrespected" a lot in front of him and he hates that.What I want to know is how to I deal with this without driving him away? Should I tell him when this feelings take over..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): I've been in that situation before. the best way to deal with it is learn to not hate them. if u get in good they will learn not to disrespect u in anyway. plus love is built on trust. and if u show romeo that u trust him he may want to be around u more and less with them. if u bad mouth his friends to him he'll feel u don't like him as much because they are a part of him. and that chick is the past don't let it bring u down chicka
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