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Does he want me back, or was he just horny?

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Question - (27 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2009)
A male Australia age 41-50, *roken gay writes:

I broke up with my ex month ago

We still living together in our place ,

I tried to get back to him twice, but he rejected me, and I felt my self so cheap, and I forgot about him totally and started

focusing on my life and try to enjoy it

But , tonight he came home and he asked me to rub his back in the bath , I did

Then I went to my room , he asked me to watch something with him

I went out , I found that he was playing porn movie

I said I am not interested , he said come on , its good one , watch

I watched , then he came and sat next to me , I couldn’t resist him , because I still love him

We had perfect sex , I didn’t want to go through this but that what’s happened

We didn’t talk after sex

But I cant understand what he wants ?

Back to me , ?

Or he was horny

Did he miss me ?

Or just he was horny

Its confusing

I don’t know what to do in this stage

Focus on myself again and forgot him

Or try to back to him, which is so hard after I have been rejected twice

Thanks guys

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (27 August 2009):

First off, why are you both still living together?

From the information, it sadly sounds like he just wanted sex. If he truly wanted anything more, he would not of just approached you for sex. He would of talked to you about how he felt (i.e. said he still had feelings for you, still cared, wanted to get back together etc...), rather then jump straight in bed. If he truly wanted something more, he would of talked to you after sex.

He probably knew you would still have feelings, and so he took advantage of that. One of you has to move out as soon as possible. If you stay you are only going to get more hurt. So please get outfor your own sake.

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A female reader, karasu10 United States +, writes (27 August 2009):

karasu10 agony auntit was just sex. his manly urges got to him, and you were available and convinient. it could've been any girl. sorry it was you.

next time something like this happens, STAY AWAY!

you're worth more than a booty call :)

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2009):

hlskitten agony auntHe was just a man!

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (27 August 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntSorry Sweetie, he was horny and you were available...

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