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writes:Hello, I've known this gal for some time, she's a cutie pie, very lovable and all, and I'm sure I have feelings, I think she has for me, she shows it, but my problem is, I'm very worries about age difference, there's like 13 and a half years of difference between us, is it a big issue? My friend told me if I was drunk.Please Please Please, It Would mean the world if someone would help!Greatly Appreciated!MOD NOTE: OP IS 28. 28-13=15
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reader, uroboros  +, writes (23 October 2011):
u know, 15 year old girls are still girls, regardless on the kind of relationship u may or may not have with her. what i mean is that even if u had sex with her she's still a kid! i don't believe she is mature enough to get involoved....or maybe u are the one who is childish?!
one more thing: if u had any type of sexuall activity her parents have grounds to take legal actions against you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): I heard recently that the human brain doesn't finish growing until about 25 years of age. In that case, she's still a child, and has years of growing up to do! Even if she's not jailbait, 15 is way too young, and you really should stay away. If that age appeals to you, look for a really young-looking 23 year old! :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 August 2009):
 Moderator: I noticed the age gap, and the "absolute age values", as a mathematician would call them.
Poster: You can't be serious about you, a 28-year old, dating a 15-year old. This smells of a fake post.
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reader, PPrincess_89 +, writes (27 August 2009):
 This is a tricky one. If this 13 and a half year gap makes your girlfriend a young teen, while you yourself are a grown man nearing his 30s, then yes, I see a issue.
Of course I am not judging you at all, however I can see numerous problems that could arise from this relationship.
For one, you dont even sound sure that your feelings are true for her, and you arnt definite that she has them for you; thats shaky foundations just there.
The fact about the age, your girlfriend is very young and hasn't had the time you've had to see and experience life to its fullest. Its her time now to find her feet. When I was 15 I more or less fooled myself I was in love, but by all means that wasn't true. Just be cautious and considerate to her feelings.
And one last point, the age gap can cause a lot of controversy. You may run the risk of slander, and disruption between family members. This will no doubt put strain on your relationship, but will dampen your attitude towards each other and possibly yourself.
I dont mean to sound so depressing, but I am just giving my views. Some say that love conquers all, and what does age matter if you are in love. Just ask yourself what your true feelings are to each other and you will know what to do. Theres not much point for fake hope.
Hope this helped in some way. Good luck
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