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writes:i have a guy friend that i really like. i've known him for a while and he's been with me through the ups downs and arounds. i don't know what to do really. i don't want to lose our friendship if we have a bad break up but i dont want to pass up this opportunity. nice guys are really hard to find and most guys just use me for sex and i actually cared about one. i guess i'm just afraid. what do i do?
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reader, Tomuchlove  +, writes (27 August 2009):
Hi, I just posted something along these lines me and my friend did have a relationship it was the greatest feeling in the world for us both but. . .were both in relationships when it started so prob ain't the same.
I will say this though talk to your friend about it and I mean really talk because we said no matter what the most important thing is we stay friends which we have but I think once you have had that connection with them it never goes back to being the way you i.e rite now you prob talk about relationships sex men women secrets about these kind of thing after you do all goes away its impossible to talk about it anymore.
My advice is spend more time with them really work out whether you both could fall in love forever if not well don't do it. I love my friend and I am totally gutted because of the way things turned out and so is she we are cosidering trying again but the friendship is gone and wont ever be the same.
I hope my situation has been of some help I wish you all the best with it.
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