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Is squirting possible or just faked?

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Question - (27 August 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I guess this question is more pertaining to any personal encounters...

But never the less, I was wondering is squirting real, is it staged, or faked in some fashion?

If it is in fact real, how is it achieved

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A male reader, typ3 Norway +, writes (28 August 2009):

typ3 agony auntYes, as the large majority of people says, it is real. The down side is that it's rare.

Usually girls who can squirt will do it when getting stimulated at the clitoris. I have in my case (trough my girlfriend) fount out that she can only do it when stimulated by a constant stimulation. Most times by viberator on the clit. But it can also be achived by oral sex.

I don't think that woman can squirt (like they do in pornos) with just stimulation by the penis, but thats just my conclution.

But if she can do it, my tip is to buy her a viberator and some gell for it, and try it on the girls clitoris. Though it may not be directly on it, but more like in that area.

Hope this helps (and maybe some girl can confirm this)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009):

I do it, but my current partner who has been with a lot of women had never seen it before. Also, I'd never done it before him and I think that's because he turns me on so much more than anyone else I've been with; the sex is incredible. So I think if a girl you're with squirts, you know she's enjoying it, but since it's rare, if she doesn't it doesn't mean the sex isn't fantastic.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

It is real. Women get externally wet when they orgasm because of secretions from the Skene's (paraurethral) gland. If the force is enough then they squirt. It is sort like the difference between a man just oozing semen when he orgasms and shooting it out. I don't think it is normal. I have only seen it happen with my wife and not the other 4 women who I have ever had sex with. My wife has only done it a few times and not with a lot of force. I could feel it hitting my face when she orgasms with oral on just those few occasions. Normally she just gets wet. Another woman who I used to date would get very wet with oral orgasms, but I don't remember her ever squirting.

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A female reader, helpful person United States +, writes (27 August 2009):

Well let me tell you it is real I myself do it all the time no lie just hold your pee" and you will see

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (27 August 2009):

eddie agony auntI do not really think it is very common. I never even heard of it until a few years ago. Did the female body suddenly change. I think it's mostly a porn gimic.

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A female reader, A_Faylene_Mandie_Marie United States +, writes (27 August 2009):

A_Faylene_Mandie_Marie agony auntLOL that's an interesting question, although a lot of porno's fake it, I know for a fact that it's real because it's happened to me a few times. It usually only happens after several orgasms, and it has to be a powerful and exerting stimulation but it does happen, though it's not common.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

I think it depends what part of the vagina is stimulated leading up to the orgasm. My ex girl used to do it all the time but that really is all i could tell you about it.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (27 August 2009):

Sandman agony auntSquirting IS indeed real - not fiction. Although porn will "fake" it sometimes, there are women out there who can squirt when they achieve an orgasm.

Not all women can do it. Some believe women can be taught how to do this while others believe you either can or cannot - no teaching needed.

Most believe that squirting is achieved through proper and effective G-spot stimulation. The woman will begin to become increasingly aroused and feel as though she has to "pee" when orgasm is pending. According to the literature, when the woman orgasms, she must bear down as though she is wanting to pee but actually ejaculates the fluid that has been building in the Skene's Gland. While this is this case for some, maybe even most, it is not the case for all.

The jury is still out on this subject though. Lot's of people believe that the woman is merely peeing when she orgasms while others note that it does not have the same odor as urine and therefore is NOT urine.

I have been with a woman who can squirt and I can attest that yes, it is indeed real and not urine.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

I think it's possible, though not common. No woman can stage it or really fake it unless it's urination, not orgasm.

Basically, it can happen, but you're not super likely to find a woman that does.

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