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writes: Whenever i meet a girl i am attracted to or is attracted to me i find it difficult to approach her or even ask.i hav seen several cases where girls seem attracted to me but i don't know how to approach them.i nid help on how to Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (27 August 2009):
Well, what I would suggest is be calm, natural. Dont force anything, dont try to mimic or recreate anything youve seen effective from other people.You have to be real and genuine, ask questions, find similar interests. Make a very casual move and start off as friends. e.g. I know a great place for cocktails.. or something to that effect. Just anything where you can be conversational without being overly romantic. You know candles and wine may be a bit heavy for a first date. However, bowling maybe a good option, or a martini bar. Something casual. Be yourself most important.-iydm
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