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writes:basically yeah my friend is really inlove with his girlfriend and i was fine with that untill i started speaking to her one night things turned alittle hot.Now like i know your probably thinking "He's Fooled Around With His Mates Girl" But i havent, i never would, i'm just not that type of guy, but yeah well when i was talking to her, she told me that she find women attractive, that there better, and started telling me about past experienes that she'd had with women saying how goodd it was, personaly from what she's been saying i think she might be a lesbian.How do i let him now, becuase, he's falling for her more and more and i dont want my mate being hurt, which if she is a lesbian and she leaves him he'll be heartborken, but if i tell him what i know, he'll think i've been 'fooling' with her and he#ll be mad at me? what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): I agree with karasu10, first your freind probably already knows his girl has a thing for other women... and in all likelyhood is secretly looking forward to her bringing a hot woman into their bed. The majority of the time the threesome doesn't happen, but the girlfreind will continue to play outside their relationship to get her needs met.Regardless, I'd stay out of this one... if she's talking to you, she's likely talking to him. If anything the next time she talks to you, work your questions into your conversation... "how does (name) feel about this?" or "what was (name's) reaction the first time you told him this?"... and see what her response is.At the end of the day, it's their relationship- they can play it however they see fit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): Is that you're only proof that she's a lesbian? She could very well be bisexual. Just tell him because if you WEREN'T doing anything dirty with her, then you have nothing to fear, right? It sounds to me like you, yourself, are hiding something. I think you should come clean, either way - tell him what you know and why you know it. Being upfront and honest is the best policy with friends.
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reader, karasu10  +, writes (27 August 2009):
 i think that you should talk to her first and ask her if she's a lesbian. or ask her if she's bi.you dont want to go to him first about the situation because that could turn out worst than him thinking you messed around with his girl. just ask the girl, get your facts straight, and if she happens to say she's a lesbian or bi, then you should suggest to her to tell your friend.
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