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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys I hope you can help me...This problem has been bugging me for a while now but I feel that I really need to sort it out lolWell basically I am trying to choose between two guys. I have recently turned 17 and they are both 17 as well. I will call the first guy 'A' and the second guy 'B'. I have known them for about the same amount of time. Guy A is really, really nice (perhaps too nice though) and I am attracted to him, we have both liked each other for a while, but when I first found out that he liked me I didn't want a boyfriend at that time as I'd just broken up with my previous boyfriend. Then there's guy B who I have fancied since the very beginning but didn't know if he felt the same way but then I found out that he does like me back. He is funny and I am attracted to him as well. What makes them different is that guy B doesn't show his emotions very well so I find it hard to tell what he's thinking/ how much he's into me (I usually get my friend to find out because they have known each other for about 11 years haha) but yeah, I think he will be good for me because he's a bit different (eg:he doesn't write cheesy poems/ go on and on about how he likes me, etc) and it will be a good relationship experience for me to look back on in the future (if it doesn't work out that is!) but then again I like the attention that I get from guy A! lolGuy A knows about me and guy B but guy B only knows that guy A likes me, but not that I kind of like him back. If I had to choose I would probably choose guy B as I'm just drawn to him and feel that he would be good for me, but I don't know how to tell guy A this (he wants an answer asap) as this sort of thing has happened to him so many times and he is a really decent guy (in fact he's my best friend!)... I don't know what else to write (sorry about the amount of writing!) but I am very stuck about what to do, so any advice would be appreciated =) thank you! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): Sounds to me like you are naturally gravitating towards dude B which is why recommend him. Besides, like you said, A is your best friend(emphasis on the word friend) and its best not to comprimise that. In terms of B displaying little emotion, that will change the closer you get2 him( IF you choose him) just like with his friend.As for how to break it to the losing guy, just politely honest. !!GoodLuckChoosingYoMan!!
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