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How do I get my mind off a crush who isn't gay or bi?

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Question - (27 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ayLeighP writes:

I can't take this anymore! I really needs tips on how I can get over someone I love. I am a girl, and so are they. They know I'm bi and they know I love them, but I'm starting to become a bit jealous because she is flirting with a guy who is flirting back, and I really don't want to be jealous over that. (She isn't gay or bi, shes straight) Just please I need to get over this girl. It's been 6 months and I want my life back to the way it used to be!

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A female reader, Angel255 United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2009):

I am in the same situation as you right now, i fell for a straight friend too. I have had a thing for her for years, but i have not heard from her since she lost her job.

All i think about is her and i do cry alot about her, the trouble is i don't even think she knew how i felt, which may be a good or bad thing

I just keep myself busy by going for walks, listening to music, read or watch tv. These things take the mind off for a short time. But time will only be the real cure.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

Getting over her will be a difficult task but time is the only real cure. Try to focus all your thoughts on a completely different art, entity or even a less painfull problem to distract you. The more the distraction deviats from her, the better as this could help make her a mere memory. I know 6 months seems long but patching the heart is a proccess that depends on how deep you were cut.Just hang in there girl and i promise you'll be great sooner than later.gOOd luck'n'god bless

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