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*ookie4
writes:Hey I need some quick advice because I want to know what i'm going to do! Please help I know it's long!!Okay so here's the deal I really like this guy that i've known all my life and he likes me back. A few weeks ago we kissed for the first time at a party and spent the rest of the night with each other making out. At another party last week we made out again. Last Friday then we made out again at another party. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. He text that night to see was I coming back to the house party from the public house we were in but i'd already gone home so I text him back telling him. We chatted for a few minutes and I told him I was going to bed. He said he'd text me in the morning but it's been five days now and he hasn't text me. I also overheard him telling a friend last friday that he likes me but doesn't think I like him... I dont know what to do it's so confusing. I really really like him.What should I do? should I be forward and text him or wait until I see him again? and I probably won't see him again for another month thanks to college and stuff. please help?btw we're both 18I really need answers please any advice x should I make a move??
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (28 August 2009):
You could have come off as "not interested" even though clearly to you, you were. But guys and their egos...they get hurt so easily. Yeah, just text him and see what's going on for the weekend and let him know that you'd like his company. Like someone else said, you have nothing to lose. I'm sure he'll want to. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): Hi Cookie4, I guess he thought you were just making an excuse when you said you weren't coming back. He may be a little insecure and nervous. If he thinks you don't like him, then he's unlikely going to make another move to it does sound like it's pretty much up to you. Just text him asking when you can see him again, or call him better yet, to make it more personal. Your initiation of contact will reassure him of your feelings. By not texting him after five days of him not texting you, then he probably thinks you don't want to. Just go for it! And goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): Make the move! it definitly sounds like he likes you. and what have you got to lose? Theres nothing wrong with telling someone you like them, it seems such a big deal but its not! think about it, wouldnt you rather go through it now and have that feeling of embarrassment for 5 minutes rather than always think "what if"? I say that alot to people, but its so true. So i think you should send him a simple text, or say it face to face when youre next together, just say something about liking him and wondering how he feels about it. It hasnt got to be a big thing, just keep it simple and forget about youre pride for now. let me know how it goes. AAJ.
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reader, linz09  +, writes (27 August 2009):
 Just text him what have you to loose...see what he has to say in his text back and possibly arrange some date from there...If he doesn't return your text back then, hey you had fun while it lasted..Take care, hope everything goes ok linz :)
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