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writes:I feel like my vagina is looser than most womens even though I do kegel exercises everyday and exercise plenty. How can I tell if I am loose? I think I am because I can not feel when my boyfriend cums inside of my vagina, but I can feel him cum during anal. Is there a procedure that I can have done to make myself tighter? I've been thinking of getting those silver balls for exercising the muscle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Well done!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTrust me I clench them! They're strong....
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (17 August 2009):
 If you are this worried about it(which I really dint think you have anything to worry about) then invest in a Kegelcisor!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): You can actually clench the muscles in your vag j j when you are having sex, that might impove your experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've only been with one other man, who was TINY, and my current partner is much larger that he makes me feel bruised at times.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (17 August 2009):
 It is very unlikely that your vagina is all that expanded at your age. Unless you are extremely large, obese or exceptionally active sexually, you should be perfectly normal. Feeling your partner's ejaculate releasing inside, other than a sense of warmth, would be unusual I think. There are typically plenty of other indications that he would be achieving orgasm.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Unless you've given birth by vaginal means, I suspect you are plenty tight. The problem may be the size of your b/f's penis (it may be kind of small?)....another thing that may be causing you to feel this way is too much wetness. If you get super wet when you're aroused then you will both have trouble feeling the experience. This is fairly common so you may need to find a subtle way to wipe yourself with the corner of the sheet or something, right before he enters you. This will lessen the effects of too much wetness, which will help you to feel everything more effectively. Just don't make yourself completely dry, because then entering you could be painful. Try it and see if that works. If so, no need for vaginal tightening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Much of the inside of your vagina doesn't have much in the way of feelings -- only the outermost areas and vaginal canal (the tighter part near the opening) have appreciable numbers of nerves. So it's very normal not to be able to feel your partner ejaculating deep inside.The anal canal, on the other hand, has many more nerves, which is why you can feel it there.Your vagina is, in all likelihood, just fine. If you really really like the feeling of him ejaculating, then have him do it closer to the opening of the vagina, right on the outside near the labia / clitoris, or even on the belly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Please, relax... your making something out of nothing! Women who claim that they can feel a man come in their vigina are either VERY VERY sensative, or lying. Feeling a guy come in your ass is different- as several of the gals I've dated told me that they could feel me that way. Frankly, I come alot harder during anal, as did most of the girls.I've NEVER had a woman that was too loose... ever! Even if a guy was crass enough to say that odds are very good that it's not true. Please don't worry about it - if he says your too loose, it's probably his package that's too small.Assuming that you've not bearthed a dozen or so 10+ pound babies odds are good that you're just fine!Please relax about your body! We're all different! I did sleep with a girl who was too tight once, and frankly, while she was really nice, smart and attractive, the experience was such that I didn't do it a second time - it was similar to anal, but I felt like I was going to rip her, and I didn't even think about suggesting anal with her.Personally, I've found that I can enjoy the variety that comes with each woman. Breasts, butts, viginas are all unique and wonderful.
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