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anonymous
writes:Ok, So I had dated this guy for about 8 months maybe longer. We broke up and didn't contact each other for about 5 months. We were in love, it's just something happened with family issues and I didn't blame him at all for breaking it off with me. I asked him after it happened...maybe a few days after, why? He said he was thinking about breaking up with me anyways because I usually start arguing. I from them cut contact. I then called him 5 months later and asked him if he would ever consider being with me again. He said He would think about it, take it slow...see where it goes if and when we hang out. Now, I'll text him to see how he is doing, blah blah. But he never texts me first, never calls me. I know he hates his phone, but he does go on facebook alot on his phone and posts his status ( I get updates all the time, and it's annoying). He has told me a couple times that we were going to hang out but he never called to tell me he couldn't make it. He says he's always busy ( he's moving, works, goes to meetings) and I understand. But a little communication and effort from his side would be appreciated. How do I get him to text me first and actually want to come see me? How do I communicate with this type of guy? It used to be easy, but now it's just tough. We both have changed a little. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYa, I figure that. However, he will tell me something one minute then won't talk to me the next. I asked him once if he was only here for the sex, if so let me know so I can step back and move on. He said I dunno, I haven't decided yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): This may not be the answer your looking for but I would not want to tell you something that was not true. It sounds to me that your life is revolving too much around him. Do not spend every minute with him and make him chase you. Guys like the chase! He knows that you will text him therefore he is letting you do all the work. It also maybe sounds like he is just not really wanting the relationship in the first place. If he were into you and cared about you then he would never stand you up
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