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writes:this girl im talking to has a boyfriend.. we talk and hangout a lot. but now im just wondering, would she respect or like me more if i said lets just stop everything and be strictly friends, because she said if anything ever happen she would always want to keep in touch and i kno ppl say that but lets just say she meant it, or if i said choose him or me right now, which is kind of dramatic.. any opinions would be great thank you!
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reader, deafguy  +, writes (17 August 2009):
You are right if you ask her to choose between you and him. It could be more likely she may said she will choose him not you - be aware.
Do you know if she have feeling for you? If yes, then do explain that you do value her friendship and would like to do more. However she has a boyfriend then that is why you raise.
If she just want you to be a friend then you have to decide to keep carrying on as a friend or go to a different way, move on.
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