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writes:I was at a BD party just drinking and lounging, my cousin had brought a girl around he left her siting by the pool where i was he went some where.I began talking to this girl she was kool she filled up the beer cooler for me and even helped get more ice, i asked her if she wanted a beer she told me she was 16 i was like oh i told her i thought she looked young but was atleast 19 cuse my cousin is 19. she told me no hes only 16.I dont see my cousin often all i kno is hes huge alot bigger then me atleast a foot taller. so she just had a soda and we talked i had a text msg come through and she liked my ring tone so i showed her more of my ringtones she moved her lawnchair closer so she could hear. I told her i could send ringtones to her so she gave me her number and i did. we talked some more she said my cousin wasnt her bf and there just friends an she doesnt even like him like that.She was messing around on my phone and i saw she was lughing i said whats so funny she had been looking at my pctures so i tried to get my phone back. She puts my phone down her bra she looks at me and said if i want it come and get it so i reached down her shirt and got it well my cousin had just walked up and he looked pissed, he asked me what the fck was i doing i told him she took my phone he slaps my phone out my hand and yells "fck that i dont care" His freind told him to calm down she even told him we where playing, but he pushed me and i got pissed this girl was telling us not to fight and telling me hes on the football team.but we started fighting and i broke his arm rigth at the elbo dislocated it and broke a piece of the bone.he was crying and screaming everyone came around and i told them what happen. he slapped my phone and pushed me. i piked it up it was broken its a $500.but they all blame me cuse im the older one and his dad is all pissed cuse he wont be able to play football his dad was gonna fight me to but everyone held him back.so everyone hates me now my cousin was supposed to be a bigtime HS football player. well im 25 and i shouldnt have been flirting with a 16 yr old the thing is she was flirting with me i was just talking mostly.And a few days later she called me and said she was sorry and my cousin is ignoring her My cousins family treats me like crap now my question is it my fault or is my cousin to blame too
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (27 February 2010):
 sorry pinktopaz...
a woman is not a man's property, because he happens to like her. She is not a tree that this "dawg" can piss on to make her his property.
If some massive obese woman comes and claims me and tries to fight a girl for it that is a no go and I would call the cops and have her ass arrested. (i have nothing against heavy set people, I am making a hypothetical)
The cousin had NO right to claim the girl that DOES NOT LIKE HIM. You do realize that he probably would beat the shit out of her eventually, I hope you know this.
Anyway.
You were in the right. Break his arm if you need to. You said it yourself. He is a foot taller and on a football team. When you square off with someone be ready to know what you are in for or don't do it.
He is a loser. You are defending yourself.
Don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): thanks for the advice, my cousin is not mad just his family they think he wont be able to get a football scholar ship now but hes smart he can get other scholarships. hes taking it like a man and he said he was drinking thats probably why but i told him that i wont tell that he was drinking.
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reader, annonymous71 +, writes (18 August 2009):
well its true that you shouldn't have been flirting with a 16 year old, but your not fully to blame.you should really try explaining the whole story to his side of the family and if they dont believe you then theres not much you can do.you should just give it time or maybe mail him a letter explaining everything
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reader, kehurch +, writes (18 August 2009):
I say, it's both of your faults. It is his fault because he got jealous because you were talking to his girl but you should of walked away when the pushing started. SINCE you ARE the older one, you should apologize. If they don't accept the apology, then screw them. Family is all you have. First start with you cousin. tell him you are sorry for breaking his arm... you don't have to do it in person, do it over the phone so nothing else starts. OR do it over an email. not text, its not personal enough. then make your way to his family. apologize to them.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (18 August 2009):
I think your cousin needs to chill out and lay off the steroids. I'm kidding, but it sounds like he went a little out of control. No, I don't think you should have fell for the whole, "If you want it come get it" statement. She was obviously flirting with you. But your cousin is immature and hot tempered. He had a right to be pissed, but not start fighting over it. I would definitely say that your cousin is partially to blame as well.
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