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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone Please help me its really comfusing me, my ex bf dumped me last october to go bk to his other ex gf, but that never happened, Anyway we have stayed really good friends and since then he has a new gf who is pregnent with his 1st child anyway, since then ive not had another bf and still like him, and would love to have him bk but i no it will never happen,Anyway me and my ex still see each other most days and speak on the phone and recently hes started saying to me if id like t suck him off and im not sure what to say to that, but 2 weeks ago we where in the car alone after dropping a mate off and he touched my boob and you guessed it we ended up sleeping together in the car i felt a tiny bit guilty about this but i dont think he did, and since then its happened again? All im asking is is he playing mind games with me?Does he still like me a little?would he even be a bit jelouse if i got a new guy?Please please help thanks
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reader, stricken +, writes (20 August 2009):
Think of it like this he is doing this because its the thrill that he might get caught its like an underage person trying to get into a bar its a thrill and a challenge to get past the bouncer and if they do they get what they want thats all he is doing with you now he knows he can do this any time he pleases get rid of him ASAP
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reader, A_Faylene_Mandie_Marie  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Girl, don't let him use you anymore unless you enjoy being used, degraded and taken advantage of because he knows you still have feelings. And if he's cheating on his gf who is pregnant with his child with you, hes a dirt-bag! as far as im concerned, you and the other woman deserve way better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): He's playing games with you full stop! He's only thinking of his own needs and not yours or anyone elses feelings! You should decide if you want to continue being treated this way or weather you think you deserve more respect.
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reader, heather75 +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Sadly, sweetie he is using you. He knows you will always be there and that you still have strong feelings for him. He is taking your feelings and using them for his own selfish purposes. He has no intentions of getting back with you. I know this is going to be hard but you need to stop taking his calls and communicating with him completely. Good luck sweetie!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Girl, what are you doing? You are not using your brain at all?
Why are you still hanging on to this ex boyfriend who is giving you false hope and crumbs and treating you like a piece of booty????
He doesn't have the kind of feelings that you think he does for you. He has no respect for you, he is using you for sex now and you are letting him. Happy? You are as convenient as a shirt pocket for him....feel good, yet?
He is irresponsible. He got a girlfriend pregnant and he is shagging you now in the most romantic of ways, wanna suck me off? Hey lets do it in the car....I bet it was without a condom or any protection, right? What is he working on his second child with you?
Ditch this loser and get some self respect. He is not even a good friend to you, got it? Good.
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