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writes:okay so my ex boyfriend and me still hangout and hookup..tonight i gave him head and i swollowed for the first time thinking that it would show him that i care!..WRONG..after i did that we talked about us and he said that he has to much going on for a relationship and that he likes me but dont want a girlfriend..when i asked if he hooks up with other girls he told me that other girls hit him up to chill but he says no to them cuz he likes me...and i believe that because he does not have a big social life to be honest i think im like his first real girl...but anyways...why cant we be in a relationship?! and what do i do because now im back to square one...do i continue hooking up? cuz if i hang out with him i no we cant not hookup and i do like him..how do i act..thanks for reading all this HELP!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all =) i think your right..if its not official i shouldnt give in..if he does not want to just be friends then i just gotta stop talking to him..and meet new cuties! thanx all...now i feel kindaaa bad that i swallowed it wasnt even worth it! dammm lol!
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reader, xAx  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 I think you should read a book called 'He's just not that into you'. It better than the film as it has lots of different questions for you to read.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Yeah man, don't let him use you JUST for the business! Tell him if he wants it all he can have it all, but if not then he can't have any of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): I think you should let go of this guy, he perhaps wants to make full use of his single life but he did do a proper job in it because he has already led you on. I am sorry to say that most guys used this excuse to breakup although i cannot guarantee that he is one of those. In order to protect yourself I think you should not trust him that much and just take it as a lesson learnt.
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reader, DracoX +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Evening, im here to give you some help, this guy doesnt know what he wants. he is sextually attracted to you. and doesnt mind the physical attraction as how all men think. its just how they are. sex is simple and easy to do. emotions. are hard. he is being evasive with you. he doesnt know what he wants, and right now this relationship to him is lust. to be honest. i would keep him at a arms length. dont be easy. stop giving to him. stop putting out. stop all that. you need to find a stone. a line. where you can find out what you are to him. and in order to do that. you have to be his friend first. not his fuck toy.... so be his friend. if you cant do this. then theres nothing there to begin with in the first place. famous words of a Designer. to find the right Design. you need to take the time to find it...
And a question i have for you.
are you willing to make time for him to make up his mind on what he wants? or do you not want to wait?
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