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writes: I have been going with a good man. he asked me to get away at bed and breakfast for a few nights. We have not make love/had sex. Is a bed and breakfast a good place for making love/having sex? Other romantic places and ideas for us? A concern about the bed and breakfast is the noise level. What if we are noisy during the night? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): There's no way to tell, as there are too many veriables. Are you capable of keeping the noise level down, or do you screem when you orgasm? What about him?
Are the walls paper thin? Is the head board 100 years old and 6' tall? (Don't laugh, happended to me in New Orleans! Dam near broke it in half and the bed squeeked!).
The comment about the owner's may or may not be on target - if they run a B&B they've probably seen and heard it all. From nasty fights to passionate lovemaking.
The question is will you feel comfortable there?
If so, it's the right place! I'd want someplace private, where I could take my meals in the room & be alone! I usually don't like communial meals, unless I'm out of teh country... and want to meet some locals.
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reader, AllisonDro  +, writes (17 August 2009):
um.. YES! my guess is that is WHY he is taking you there...
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Sure! Just remember that Ma and Pa Kettle may ask you to leave if you wreck the antique headboard!
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reader, busy04 +, writes (17 August 2009):
 I think it's a great place, quiet & romantic.
Just keep it low as much as you can,but hey not everyone can contain themselves:)
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reader, urbanking99  +, writes (17 August 2009):
Personally no, even as a guy I would prefer somewhere a little bit more romantic and private.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 If you are asking us, then it's obvious that you are a bit uncomfortable already, frankly...
A B&B is a bit more homey and you ARE sharing space with the owners, so it might put a crimp on the lovemaking!
On the other hand, if you liked grabbing a quickie under your parents roof - because it seemed naughty and forbidden - it might be the perfect thing!
Only YOU, exactly, know under what circumstances you feel comfortable enough to enjoy being intimate! ;^)
Sit yourself down with a cup of tea and think about it and decide it for yourself!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Any place private is good for sex, so i don't see why a B&B would be any different! If your noisy, he'll have to gag you lol!
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