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writes:ok so i feel really bad right now. my boyfriend and i been going out for almost 2years. i trust him but sumtimes i have doubts. so i went throu his cell phone and i found this girl who recently call him. i checked for the second time again and as stupid i was, and afraid, i called this girl some other time. but she said they were just friend for a while now. and i believe. she call my bf back that i call her and my bf had to appologize to her for me comfronting her. omg, i wished i didnt call that girl. now i am so embarased. what should i do? i say sorry to my bf. she told my bf that i was a bitch for callin her at 3am to comfront her. i am so sorry. wat should i do? help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): he wasnt mad at me, i just felt bad for calling the girl. he was just mad bcuz i didnt ask him anything first. and he is planing to mary me.he hang out with my family all the time. he is great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): yes, my boyfiend was really mad at her for calling me a bitch. the thing i did wrong was that it was that only day the girl actually called my bf. my bf didnt even remember her number bcuz he didnt save it. but he got pissed of that i didnt talk to him before i called the number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): The fact that they got upset over your inquiry seems extreme. Even your 3 am phone call, immature as it was.You are all kids and don't handle relationships very well. You have only been doing this dating thing for a few years, so of course you will make mistakes. Call the guy and explain your side of the story.A guy and a girl hanging out usually means there is an attraction. It may be suppressed for now, but you were probably on to something.Unfortunately, your actions have opened the door for their infidelity. They may hook up now to spite you. That will be his excuse... that you drove him to the other girl because he was so upset over your actions. There's one thing a girl wants... it's what another girl has. There's one thing every hetero young guy wants... pussy and a lot of it. Although... once they hook up they may find it to be awkward and that they weren't right for each other. So they may call it off anyway and never see each other again.Then you get him back. Or else their sex is great and you never see him again. Either way, your break up was certainly on the horizon.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 you need to have more trust in your bloke, however it does interest me that you did not know of this female friend before you checked his cell, and she openly calls you a bitch and he doesnt so much as tell her off for it?? *puzzeled look* i would never allow one of my mates to disrespect my partner in that way, i would sympathize with them for the mix up but they would defo kno theres a line! just remember its not always paranoia, intuition is a wonderful thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Your boyfriend plays around. She is the other woman. She is playing games with you. She is winning because you shouldn't have called her. And because he doesn't see his own behaviour. He will always play around. He is the centre of attention. Can't women respect other women out there? Nowonder these bad guys get away with so much
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