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writes:So I started liking this guy months ago. At first he didn't know if he liked me back or not but then he started liking me and we've had a thing for 9 months on and off now. When we do have a thing, it's always me and some other girls. Well just this last month we've been doing a lot more than liking each other. We've almost had sex and i'm just a virgin. I don't want to lose it to him but then I do just to get it over with. But then I don't want to because then i'll like him even more and i'll never be able to let him go. I'm trying to end it w/him but it's so hard!! Any advice??
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reader, Pixiegirl123  +, writes (22 October 2009):
If your not ready then no one can pressure you into it. Just wait until such time as you are ready. Especially if it is an on/off relationship. You should wait until you have a stable relationship first. If you want to end it with him then be honest and say it to his face not texting or e-mailing or lieing to him and yourself be having sex with him and staying with him.
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reader, beachbabe  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 You should wait until you feel that he is the one to do it with. Wait till the relationship is steady..did he told you he loves you yet?good luck, xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): You should definitely wait. You are not sure that he's the right one for you. You owe it to yourself to wait for someone who lets you know you are the only one for him. Otherwise you may end up broken-hearted. Give yourself more time. If he won't wait, he's not worth it.
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reader, meganutts +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Baby, let me tell you, hold on to your vcard as long as you can lol. I'm sure a beautiful yong women who is getting tired of the wait and yurning to be with that one and only, I was there so I know how u might feel. With that said, make sure ur lover boy over there is the one for you, by that I mean get to know him a lot better before you lay down with him. If he really wants you for you, he'll wait. And if all else fails, and you find out you can't wait any longer, please, please, please make him where a condom, I don't care if he starts with the whole "oh baby I'll pull out" or the "baby u can't get pregnant if I, whatever" u can get preggo and he won't pull out. And the condom is for anyone you sleep with for that matter. Safe sex for your first time is a must. Don't ever feel you have to do anything you don't want to just for him, if he's really into you and about you, he'll understand it when you tell him your not ready. If not, screw him. Hope it helps love.
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