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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello, i would really apreciate if you guys will help me out with this..my ex-borfriend was in the army, nd during the time he was there he told me he loved me for the first time. i believed him, and said it back bt i meant it..now that he came back.. he tld my friend that he was taking care of another person's baby..(he said its not his) he also said that when he said that he loved me, that was such how he talks to everyone.. bt this is wat really hurt me... he said that he loves my to death, nd he will never want to hurt me but that at this point he cant have a relationship right now, due to the baby that he is taking care of.. nd that mayb later somethng might happen.. now this is the question he said that he wanted to talk to me about this.. bt he hasnt its been 4 days and he hasnt even called me or anythng.. idk wat to do.. should i still be friends with him even after all this.. should i stop talking to him.. if he says he wants me back, should i take him back? i dont kno wat to do please help me! thx alot 3 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): I know this isn't what you want to hear (and it's only my opinion so don't take it for gospel), but it sounds as though you are wasting your time with this, as you said, he told you he isn't ready for a relationship, and obviously he has got other committments. I think you should just leave him be for now and see when he contacts you. For a relationship to work, two people have got to put in the time and effort, and he seems to have other ideas!
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