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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:In every relationship I've had (and there have been a lot, from 3 weeks to 3 years) I've always instinctively known that we wouldn't last. Until the guy I'm sort of with now. I just know we will always come back to each other. We've been close for a year and share an incredible connection but no commitment, since we both got out of relationships around the time we met, we thought we weren't ready for anything serious. I'm now over my issues from the previous relationship. He went overseas a couple of months ago to get away and work through his issues (he still lives in the house he shared with her and at home, she's always around messing with his head) and he'll be back in a few weeks. We've stayed in touch a lot and he's said he's been getting a lot of clarity on what he wants etc, and that he can't wait to see me, misses me a lot and is hoping I miss him a little too. Does it sound like he could at some point want a relationship with me? I've been dating other guys, mainly to stop myself going mad waiting for him to come back, but I still can't stop thinking about him, like I was out with this new guy the other night and we ended up at a lounge bar that just opened and I was sitting there thinking I'll have to take him here when he gets back, he'll love this place! Am I crazy to be waiting for him to be ready still or might I have a chance? I've really tried moving on but it just doesn't work. I don't want to put pressure on him for a commitment either, because I don't think he could handle pressure well yet. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009): Yeah you are crazy in love. I mean, when you think about guy whilst on a date with another guy, you know there is special about that other guy. Sorry that was slightly confusing. What I am saying is, if in the past you've predicted a premature ending to a relationship and but with this guy it's different, then you owe to yourself to pursue him and try it out with him because he could be that special someone and I think that is something worth waiting for.
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