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writes:my boyfriend 20 years is suddenly loosing interested in our relationship he said he still loves me but has no sexual feelings for me what can i do since im still inlove with him.please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your comment ill try to see if they work
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): To add to the hormone suggestion, a doctor can check his various hormones, including the most important ones for sexual aspects and libido in men. These are free and total testosterone, DHT (dihydrotestosterone) and estradiol. Men also have estradiol and high estradiol in men causes the same symptoms as low testosterone. If he is overweight then that can cause high estradiol in men and high estradiol will cause testosterone to drop. These are all checked by blood tests.
Men can have hormone problems at any age, but it normally starts in men after the age of 40, but is not really common until after 60. The symptoms of low testosterone are ED, low libido, loss of strength, fatigue, depression, mood swings, difficulty concentrating, increased fat and a few others. It is called hypogonadism (technical term), andropause or male menopause and is the cause of the real mid life crisis, which does exist.
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reader, wantmoremoney +, writes (18 August 2009):
Sometimes when a person, especially a man has been gettin sex from the same woman we tend to get bored. One way for sure to get him aroused is role play and exotic massages. Go get some massage oil or coco butter gel oil from walmart and when he comes out the tub and lays down, turn him on his stomach and straddle him while rubbing oil all over him especially his buttocks and ease your hand partially between his legs as you massage him like you're bout to grab his man tool but don't. While rubbing him blow softly on his neck and back. Then say something like daddy I must be honest with you I been a real bad bad bad girl and I been thinking about some other boys. I know I'm not suppose to and I don't want to but I have. I thought about this one boy doing some very nasty sexual things to wet and now I'm all wet. Are you going to let me keep thinkin about these biys or are you gonna spank me for my bad thoughts. And the rest is history. Trust me he will be interested in havin more sex. Men and women who been together a long time are just really bored and they both need to know that there's a potential for someone else to creep in and satisfy the other needs if yo love one doesn't. Hope this helps!
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reader, A_Faylene_Mandie_Marie +, writes (17 August 2009):
 You have been with him for TWENTY YEARS? well if he is losing interest in you sexually, perhaps it's not that hes not in love with you anymore, and perhaps its not that he doesn't find you physically attractive anymore, it could be his hormones, because men over 40 tend to lose their sex drive, their testosterone levels go down, sometimes to the point where they have no interest in sex at all. Talk to him more about it and ask the right questions, you will figure it out because i can guarantee if hes been with you for that long, it's not that he doesn't feel for you anymore.
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