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writes:I've been dating a guy for almost a month. We've known each other for several years through mutual friends. In the past three weeks we've gone out four or five times. We've had fun each time and I think he's into me. The thing is that I went on vacation out of the country for a week last week and just got back yesterday. It's been 8 days since we've seen each other, but the last time I saw him, the date ended really well. We chatted for an hour on the computer yesterday after I got back from vacation When we ended the conversation he said "I'll give you a call this week". I'm not sure if he's blowing me off by giving me a somewhat vague answer or if I'm reading too far into it. I was worried that me going on vacation so early into this would blow the momentum. I was hoping he'd try to make plans with me when we chatted yesterday, but all he said was that he'd call this week. Any insight? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): My insight is that he will call you this week, and you should let him call you.
In the future rather than talking for an hour on the computer, be less available, less easy for him to get ahold of that way.
You want him speaking to you over the phone, not over the net or by text. Make him reach for you by cutting out the texting, he will be more likely to nail you down to a date and time to get together. Otherwise he will use modern technology to catch you later, when it is only convenient for him.
You are more special than that.
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