A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've been dating this one guy (who I really fancy) for half a year now. Officially we're not a couple as we both were very busy and I am originally from France so I go back home a lot. All this wouldn't bother me that much if there wasn't this extremely annoying best friend of his! He has a lot of female friends in general but this particular one is really annoying me. They hang out so much (used to date!) and his family is very fond of her. Apart from that they spend weekends away together (visit common friends+ party there). I have to admit that I've never met her but alone the amount of photos of her he has in his fb account seem very alarming to me(Oh, did I mention that she is a very similar type to mine? Tall, dark hair, slim... weird how all his close friends look like that^^). I am too afraid to talk to him about that as I don't want to seem too jealous. What's that about these best friends anyway? What's there they can give what a guy or his g/f can't give? I'm in France atm (and study in Britain)and feeling very helpless as I have no clue about what's going on over there, what is driving me mad! Is it really true, that such best friends secretely fancy each other?She contacts him a lot and I don't want to come back to Britain just to find out there was something going on :-(
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reader, kehurch +, writes (18 August 2009):
ditch this guy. he still likes her, and wants her back.
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