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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i love him more than anyone, or anything. I feel so comfortable when im with him and i can really see us being with each other for a very long time. The thing is i feel the spark in our relationship has gone, when i kiss him i don't feel anything, sex is enjoyable but we dont have sex that much any more he always seems to make up excuses. We argue much more than before too, over silly things most of the time. I know neither of us want to hurt each other but when we argue it becomes something huge and we both end up really upset. We have both suggested breaks and splitting up but we both know deep down that we love each other. I need to do something to bring our relationship back alive, i feel we argue mostly because we are bored with each other. I dont know what to do, i dont want to loose him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): He's not doing much, while you are doing all of the running around. He doesn't seem to be very pleasing to women
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