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writes: hi, i like this man whose married and have two kids. and i am jealous of his wife and can't see him with her. i know very well its not her fault but mine and his. even he likes me and we've had many good times together. we still continue to see each other even if we know its wrong, cos we can't stop doing this. please help me get out of this feeling.please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Butterflylady +, writes (25 September 2010):
I have tried ever which way to stop this feeing that I have with this man and somehow my feelings get stronger.
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reader, channy_2009 +, writes (20 August 2009):
I was in exactly the same situation, except i was in a realationship aswell. It went on for months and i finally persuaded him to leave his wife and id leave my partner and we'd be together. happy and in love. except it doesnt work like that. Everything changed. Family fell out with us and friends drifted away because what we did was wrong. I was so unhappy after it. If hes really that into you he'll make sacrifices but believe me, it doesnt always go to plan.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYup!!!!thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni agree to all this but i really cant stop thinking of him, as he was my first relationship ever. its also been 4 and a half years since i know him. and i was away from him for almost a year, i avoided him did not answer his calls, but it was all in vain....and moreover i like him truly...;(
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni agree to all this but i really cant stop thinking of him, as he was my first relationship ever. its also been 4 and a half years since i know him. and i was away from him for almost a year, i avoided him did not answer his calls, but it was all in vain....and moreover i like him truly...;(
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reader, deafguy +, writes (17 August 2009):
If you want to be with him, why disrespect to wife do not know what is going on.
Why cannot you and him agree to tell the whole truth.
Why cannot you think of consequences - either now or in future wife will find out and will spoil everything in the end you all will hurt.
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