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writes:Hi,I've just been to a wedding. Over the course of the weekend, I got speaking to a girl, and think I like her.The problem is, at said wedding, in the evening, another guest got rather drunk and caused a rather big scene, after which I spent a bit of time comforting said girl who was upset at what at happened.If I suggest meeting up with her, might she just see my trying to comfort her as me trying to get in there or something, which is exactly not how I want it to seem?To be honest I spoke to her more after this and in the following morning.So... would it look as if I was trying it on if I did try and stay in contact with her or try to meet up etc etc? I do believe in nothing ventured nothing gained, but then I also don't to look like an idiot.Any advice appreciated!
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reader, deafguy +, writes (17 August 2009):
What is wrong with telling how you feel?
Is there a rule not allow to being "try it on"
ask her for a date
ask for going out dinner or walks or cinema.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Young man, you will not look like an idiot at all!
Simply when you approach her about the subject let her know that in light of your recent contact with her, that she is someone whom you think is worth getting to know better. You've spoken to her already. I think it is clear that she already knows this being she spoke to you already this morning.
being honest is always the best policy. And I think if you put that truth to her in the way I described, you have a very good chance of seeing where this goes.
As a matter of fact, Id be willing to bet that she already is hoping you do ask to see her.
GO FOR IT!!!
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