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female
age
30-35,
*oftballchickcarissa
writes:Hi i have been with the father of my child for almost 4 years.We met my senior year and it was great we broke up about 6 months into the relastionship but got back together because we thought i was pregnant. I wasnt it was a mistake but he changed after that. I know i should have dumped him but i didnt. I was young and you know kids not good. But he has hit me a few times since and he kissed my best friend when he was drunk in my car. Alot of stuff has happend but the worse thing. he has been a great boyfriend for the most part after i had my child. I dont know what to do. I dont want to talk about this with my family???????
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reader, rcn +, writes (17 August 2009):
 drunk, kissed the friend, may be forgivable and move on. What stopped that idea was his hitting you a few times. I am not, and will never be convinced that physical abuse in a relationships is acceptable. You two have a child. Does he hit you in front of your child? As your child grows older, is he going to get angry and hit your child?
I understand he's been great after the child has been born. What you need to consider is this change lasting or temporary. You don't need to be raising your child around violence. This would be unhealthy for you and the child you're raising. Remember, violence is never tolerated.
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